Describe a time when you had difficulty communicating with someone
Describe a time when you had difficulty communicating with someone
You should say:
- Who you were trying to communicate with
- What the difficulty was
- How you tried to solve the problem
- And explain what you learned from the experience
One minute to prepare, then speak for one to two minutes.
How to plan it in one minute
- Identify a specific person and setting to make your story grounded and easy to narrate.
- Use the bullet points as a chronological roadmap to ensure you cover every required aspect.
- Focus on your feelings during the struggle to add depth and natural emotional flow.
Band 8 model answer
A couple of years ago, I was backpacking through a remote village in the mountains of Northern Vietnam. I ended up needing to find a local mechanic because my rented motorbike had developed a stubborn electrical fault. I found a tiny, cluttered workshop and attempted to explain the issue to the elderly owner, Mr. Minh. The difficulty was that he spoke absolutely no English, and my Vietnamese was limited to basic greetings and ordering coffee. We stood there for a few minutes, with me making frantic revving sounds and him looking increasingly perplexed while gesturing at the battery compartment.
To solve the problem, I decided to move away from spoken language entirely. I pulled out my smartphone and used a translation app, but the technical jargon for motorcycle parts didn't translate well. Eventually, I took out my digital camera and showed him a quick video I had recorded of the engine cutting out at specific speeds. When he saw the flickering headlight on the screen, his face lit up with immediate recognition. He mimed a loose wire by jiggling his fingers, and we finally established a mutual understanding through a mix of diagrams drawn in the dust on his workbench and expressive body language. From this experience, I learned that communication is far more than just vocabulary; it is about empathy and adaptability. I realised that when words fail, patience and visual aids can bridge even the widest cultural or linguistic gaps, making the interaction feel like a shared puzzle rather than a source of frustration.
256 words, about two minutes at a natural pace. Details are invented; use your own.
Vocabulary from the answer
- stubborn
- difficult to move, remove, or cure completely
- perplexed
- completely baffled, confused, or very puzzled indeed
- technical jargon
- specialised words used by experts in a field
- mutual understanding
- a shared agreement or comprehension between two people
- frantic
- conducted in a hurried, excited, and chaotic way
- bridge the gap
- to connect two different things or groups together
- expressive
- effectively conveying thought or feeling through gestures
- linguistic
- relating to language or the study of language
Part 3 questions that follow this card
- How important is body language in communication?
- What are the main barriers to effective communication?
- How has digital communication changed the way people interact?
- What role does language play in preserving culture?
- Do you think English will remain the global language?
- How can people improve their communication skills?
Answer each in three to five sentences: position, reason, example, limit. See the Part 3 guide.
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Frequently asked questions
How should I start the cue card "Describe a time when you had difficulty communicating with someone"?
Identify a specific person and setting to make your story grounded and easy to narrate.
How long should my answer be?
Speak for the full two minutes, about 220 to 280 words at a natural pace. The examiner will stop you at two minutes, which is a good sign, not a problem.
Can I use this model answer in the exam?
Use its structure and vocabulary, not its sentences. Examiners recognise memorised answers and mark fluency down; a shorter answer from your own memory scores higher than a recited one.
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