Describe a time when someone apologized to you
Describe a time when someone apologized to you
You should say:
- Who apologized to you
- When it happened
- Why they apologized
- And explain how you responded to their apology
One minute to prepare, then speak for one to two minutes.
How to plan it in one minute
- Choose a relatable incident to ensure your narrative flow remains natural and easy to follow.
- Use the one-minute prep to list three adjectives describing your initial feelings and the apology.
- Structure your response chronologically to ensure you cover all four bullet points without losing focus.
Band 8 model answer
A couple of years ago, my close friend Leo accidentally caused a bit of a disaster at my housewarming party. I had spent the entire afternoon meticulously setting up a small buffet on my glass dining table, including a rather expensive crystal vase that had been a housewarming gift from my aunt. Leo, who is usually quite composed, was laughing at a joke and swung his arm back with such force that he sent the vase crashing to the floor. The sound of shattering glass was deafening, and the room went silent instantly. I was genuinely gutted, not just because of the monetary value, but because it held sentimental significance. Leo looked absolutely mortified; his face went pale, and he immediately stopped laughing. The next morning, he showed up at my front door with a sheepish expression and a heartfelt letter. He apologised profusely, explaining that his clumsiness had been inexcusable and that he felt terrible for ruining such a special item. He had even gone out of his way to find an antique shop and bought a replacement vase, though it wasn't an exact match, the gesture was incredibly thoughtful. I responded by telling him that it was just an object and that our friendship was far more important than any piece of crystal. I made sure to emphasise that he shouldn't beat himself up about it because accidents are an inevitable part of life. I felt it was crucial to be forgiving, as his genuine remorse and the effort he made to rectify the situation demonstrated how much he valued our relationship.
264 words, about two minutes at a natural pace. Details are invented; use your own.
Vocabulary from the answer
- meticulously
- In a way that shows great attention to detail.
- gutted
- Feeling extremely disappointed or unhappy about a situation.
- mortified
- Feeling very embarrassed, ashamed, or humiliated by something.
- profusely
- To a great degree or in large amounts.
- inexcusable
- Too bad to be justified or forgiven by others.
- sheepish
- Showing embarrassment from shame or a lack of confidence.
- rectify
- To put something right or correct a mistake.
- inevitable
- Certain to happen and impossible to avoid ever.
Part 3 questions that follow this card
- What role does society play in shaping our attitudes towards this?
- Has the way people view this changed over the years?
- How do you think it will develop in the future?
- What are the benefits and drawbacks?
- Do you think the government should be involved in regulating this area?
Answer each in three to five sentences: position, reason, example, limit. See the Part 3 guide.
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