Describe a time when you told a friend an important truth
Describe a time when you told a friend an important truth
You should say:
- Who the friend was
- What the truth was
- Why it was important to tell them
- And explain how they reacted
One minute to prepare, then speak for one to two minutes.
How to plan it in one minute
- Identify the specific person and context immediately to anchor your story.
- Use chronological order to describe the truth and your emotional state.
- Focus on the long-term impact of your honesty to wrap up the answer.
Band 8 model answer
A couple of years ago, I found myself in a rather delicate situation with my close friend, Marcus. We had been flatmates for nearly three years, but he had recently started a business venture that, quite frankly, was heading for a financial cliff. He had invested almost all his savings into a niche retail concept that was clearly failing to gain any traction in our local area. Watching him pour more capital into this sinking ship was painful, but he was so blinded by his initial optimism that he refused to acknowledge the mounting debts. I realised that I had to step in, even though it risked our friendship. One rainy Tuesday evening, I invited him over for a coffee and, with my heart pounding, told him the hard truth: his business model was fundamentally flawed and he needed to pull the plug before he ended up completely destitute. It was critical to speak up because I saw his mental health deteriorating under the pressure of maintaining a facade of success. I knew that if I didn't say anything, he would eventually lose everything, including his flat and his credit rating. Initially, Marcus was quite defensive and even a bit cold, feeling that I was undermining his ambition. However, after a few days of silence, he came back to me. He admitted that my words had been the wake-up call he desperately needed to stop the bleeding. He ended up closing the business, and while it was a tough period, he eventually thanked me for having the courage to be honest when everyone else was just being polite.
268 words, about two minutes at a natural pace. Details are invented; use your own.
Vocabulary from the answer
- delicate situation
- a circumstance that requires careful handling and tact
- financial cliff
- a point of imminent and severe monetary collapse
- gain traction
- to start making progress or become popular
- sinking ship
- a failing project that cannot be saved
- destitute
- without the basic necessities of life or money
- facade of success
- an outward appearance of being successful, though false
- undermining
- weakening someone's confidence or their authority
- stop the bleeding
- to prevent a situation from getting much worse
Part 3 questions that follow this card
- What role does society play in shaping our attitudes towards this?
- Has the way people view this changed over the years?
- How do you think it will develop in the future?
- What are the benefits and drawbacks?
- Do you think the government should be involved in regulating this area?
Answer each in three to five sentences: position, reason, example, limit. See the Part 3 guide.
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Identify the specific person and context immediately to anchor your story.
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