Anniversaries: questions and Band 8 answers

Yes, definitely. It's quite common for couples to mark the occasion, especially milestone ones like twenty-five or fifty years. Usually, younger couples just go out for a romantic meal, whereas older generations often host a get-together with extended family at a local restaurant.

We tend to keep things fairly low-key, to be honest. For my parents' last wedding anniversary, my siblings and I chipped in to book them a weekend trip to the countryside, followed by a quiet Sunday roast together at home.

I suppose so, yes. It shows that you value the relationship and appreciate the time you've spent together. If you overlook a meaningful date, it can easily hurt someone's feelings, even if you genuinely just slipped up.

Sadly, yes. A couple of years ago, I completely blanked on my best friend's work anniversary. I felt awful about it, so I immediately ordered some flowers to her flat and called her to apologise properly.

I'd definitely lean towards a quiet dinner with a handful of close friends and family. Huge gatherings can feel a bit overwhelming, and I'd rather spend quality time actually chatting to the people who matter most.